Three Good Things

Not every day is a happy day. Some days, you just feel terribly empty, left behind and on occasion, utterly depressed. I revel on the feeling though, I savor it, and let it linger, but not for too long, because in these moments of darkness is where you also find some shimmer- a piece of happiness to hold on to and be grateful for.

Right now, the world is not in my favor- well it never was, but sometimes I like to think that it is and that I can control what happens and how I react, and what would happen next. I just feel lost and defeated when I am not able to take charge of certain aspects of my life, especially those that matter a lot to me- like my work and my relationships. So, here I am, trying to take ten deep breaths while I wait for my client to arrive. Every time I do, I don’t get relieved, I feel even heavier.

So… I explored the crazy, cluttered abyss of my mind for three good things, three good things that have happened to me that I can reflect on and that I can keep thinking about instead of those that weighs me down and here they are:

  1. I woke up- Not everyone could be as fortunate as I am to have heard the heavy rain pouring outside earlier. It wasn’t a sunny day, but still a day that I get to be here, and just live.
  2. I had a nice chat with a friend on my way to my evening work. Things in my life have been hectic lately and some days I just really want to slow down and rest, and today, a simple opportunity to catch up with someone have meant a lot. I’m happy about how he is progressing in his life, and that I know of it.
  3. The last thing, would be this, writing this down right now. Writing could really be quite therapeutic and for someone who haven’t written for a literally a long time, it feels really nice and brought a little smile on my face.

So I encourage you dear one, whenever you are having a bad day, try to recall three good things, hell why not make a habit of having three good things every day in your life, whether it be accidental or planned. You deserve three good things in your life every day and I encourage you to make them happen. When you do, let me assure you, no matter how bad your day has gone, you’d go to sleep feeling contented just by reflecting on those three good things.



Choose Your Bottle and Fight off Stress with Sosro Fruit Tea

Whether its the seemingly endless traffic, your horrendous boss, your heartbreaking almost love story, or a dreaded final exam, the effect is just the same, especially for millennials,- a bucket filled with stress. Worry not though because Sosro has got you covered with their juiciest solution to get you chilling – SOSRO FRUIT TEA.

Sosro Fruit Tea comes in an array of interesting flavors to give you that tea refreshing kick to help you cool down before we get too heated and drained. Adopting the millennial-apt-adage “Choose your battles”, Sosro Fruit Tea allows you to #ChooseYourBottle from tea-infused flavors apple, guava, and strawberry.

With our society being so fast-paced, Sosro  Fruit Tea helps us to de-stress quickly with just a few gulps of its invigorating flavor. It keeps you healthy and happy and prepared to face whatever battle is coming your way.

De-stress now and #ChooseYourBottle of Sosro Fruit Tea at SM Hypermarkets, Landmark, Sta. Lucia Grocery, Tropical Hut, Hi-Top Supermarket, Walter Mart, Pioneer Center, and other leading supermarkets.

For more information, visit and follow Sosro Fruit Tea on Facebook at <>, and on Twitter and Instagram <@sosrofruittea>.

For Time

Dear Time,

As I struggle to write down these words that will never truly comprehend how I feel right at this very moment, I hope you find it in your heart to help me heal.

Please fly so fast I wouldn’t notice just how much of you have passed. Every second that I spend idle and alone makes me feel like there’s this wretched hole inside my heart just eating me up and breaking every fiber of my sanity. I keep on watching the clock and yet waiting for a minute feels like waiting for an hour. You are just too long and damn hurtful. -Even breathing is literally painful.

Pinto Art Museum


Pinto Art Museum is filled with paintings that will feast your eyes to your artistic heart’s delight

You don’t need to go far to have that sweet relaxing escape that you very much deserve. Simply head on to Pinto Art Museum in Brgy. San Roque, Antipolo City where you can enjoy the beauty and mystique of art works from many great artists while in the midst of an enchanting view of nature.

Pinto Art Museum offers a place of sanctuary for those who want to escape the ever busy city life. You only need to pay Php150 entrance fee and you get to enjoy all of their wonderful facilities plus there are plenty of beds to just lie on to and relax as you look into paintings or as you wait for your food to be served.

The stars above my head

Feeling free and relax with the sun above my head

Here are some snapshots of my day, from statues, to paintings, to photographs and more. This place is guaranteed to make your day.


Even the outside has artistic touch


Why so grouchy?


Are they ghosts? Spirits? Nah, just some really awesome light photography

I am an angel and these are my wings

This chair turned me into an angel

Someone wants to come out of that shell

Someone wants to come out of that shell

Meet my friend Zuma

Meet my friend Zuma

Bonus: The restaurants inside offers good food, good music in a very reasonable price. You get to choose from pasta, pasty, rice meals that will surely make you forget your name.

Cinderella’s blues

As my eyes let these salty tears fall, my heart gave a little twitch. It had been hurting for quite a while, but it is only tonight that I truly felt its pain. All of a sudden, my body felt heavier, as if there was a weight pressed on against my chest. How long have I been holding it back? What triggered this sudden rush of emotion? Is it my hormone or was it really just too much that it had to make itself known?

The worse thing about feeling this shattered is that I cannot even tell the reason why. Have I truly wasted my three years of existence believing that fairy tales are real and happy endings are possible for me when in reality, it never favors me? I am not the girl who a man kneels down to with roses on one hand and a promise of forever on the other. My romances have an expiration date. When will I ever learn?

Finally, I came across a man who I admire and have fallen for, and by a twist of fate and a little help from the universe, he fell for me too. In the beginning, it was all smiles and crazy times. It was good, and I should’ve stuck on to it, but I couldn’t. That was my mistake, wanting more that is. I should’ve been satisfied by whatever we were but I wasn’t. I didn’t just want his present, I wanted his future more. So it started, my hopes and dreams latched on to his words who I never should’ve held on to. He loves me but his love was not enough to pursue the future I had in mind.

Now I am here, in a middle of two roads, wondering which path to take. Do I have enough courage and life left to live should I choose to go alone, without him who holds my heart and soul? The thought of not being with him makes it hard for me to breathe. He is my air, my light, my love. Should I hold his hand and be stuck with him, knowing that I will never have a future will slowly kill me inside. I wonder which pain I could live with?

 How I wish he’s here beside me, hug me, console me, kiss me, and make me feel like everything is going to be alright. I just know that he would make me feel better, but why do I feel like he wouldn’t. Why do I feel like everything would fall apart the moment that he comes to me?

 Another chapter awaits, whether it is tragedy or comedy, I have no idea

Protected: Password: Buzz LightYear

This content is password protected. To view it please enter your password below:

A Happy Wife, A Happy Life


When you commit to someone, always make her part of the equation
Ponder ‘What will she say, what will she think, what will she feel?’
It may sound tedious but this is what commitment means
For one false move can trigger her worst possible reaction

Do yourself a favor and choose to have a happy, peaceful life
By ensuring that you have a happy and contented wife
Marriage is more than just writing vows and saying ‘I do’
It asks of you to continuously work on your relationship too

Take her out to dinner, make her laugh out loud
Make her feel she’s the best thing you’ll ever have
Hold her hand tightly and wipe her tears
In your arms she has nothing to fear

Treat her special, make her feel like she’s a princess
And you’re her prince ready to save her from distress
Remember that you hold her fragile little heart
Holding on to the promise you won’t tear it apart

Apology Not Accepted

There will come a time when sorry wouldn’t be enough,
And saying it’s your fault wont help get you out
There will come a time when someone’s love wont be enough to forgive you
Especially when for a hundred times, you broke her heart in two

Put yourself in her shoes and wonder
Wouldn’t you be tired of doing it over and over
Believing words that are contrary to actions
And have your hopes shattered into fractions

The next time it happens and she gives up
Let her be for she have suffered too much
No amount of flowers nor a teddy bear
Can make her believe that you actually care

The secret to making her happy is to keep your words
Be true to the promises that she deeply holds
Make her feel special even when you’re not together
And maybe just maybe, this love could last forever…

Ranting about Porn, Infidelity and my view of loyalty


Whenever I hear my boyfriend say how sexy, how hot,or how yummy another girl looks, whether it’s a Victoria Secret model or a girl we just saw passing by, I feel a little insecure. I am not tall, nor do I have super boobs or a rocking ass that he seems to prefer in a girl.
There is no problem with acknowledging that a girl looks pretty, but it’s different when you’re saying something that refers to her sexuality. Sometimes I even think that given a chance, he’d take it and go after the girl. I know he loves me with all his heart but still I can’t prevent my brain from thinking otherwise at some situations.
If a man’s perspective of beauty, especially my man’s is towers away from what I am, then it makes me feel that he does not regard me as beautiful.
Honestly, I am sick and tired of porn, sex magazine, girls who are regarded for their sexuality rather than their personality. I am a human being, all girls are, and we should not be treated as objects or be graded based on how “hot” we look. With guys continuously patronizing those objects and thoughts, then the more the industry grows. I don’t understand how men think, now how do other girls think, what I write is based on my opinion alone. Sure, there are men that I find really attractive and sexy but I never and would never think of them sexually. I have a man I love and he is enough for me.
Men would say they are loyal, the ‘chicks’ are just a feast for the eyes and that they would not even think of doing it. It’s all in the mind. Well, that is a lie. Loyalty is not just about not going to bed with another person who is not your partner. It’s also about devoting your heart, mind and desire to only one being. Men would use the excuse ‘It’s normal… It’s biological’ Well, that’s crap. If you love a girl, if you truly do you would not want to make her feel unsecured and doubtful.
I do see other guys as handsome but I never think of anything sexual about them. All I see is how good looking he is. Also, if he’s the male equivalent of a bimbo, then he’s off the list. You can admire beauty and not be malicious. YES YOU CAN! IT MAY BE HARD BUT YOU CAN!
So for example you see a video of a girl with big boobs boxing around, and you keep staring at her breasts. You are being malicious. You are thinking OF THAT GIRL’S BREAST, at the back of your mind if you can do something you would do something about those coconuts. That is still cheating.
For those used to it, it’s hard to shake the habit, but if you really want to, you could. You just need a motivation, a goal, and commitment. Your goal is to shake off the malicious habits, the motivation, loving your girl the right way, and of course commit yourself in doing so. Refrain from watching people having sex or pictures of people almost nude. It is unhealthy for your soul.
It’s not me being too righteous, or if it is,it’s who I am.I want a man that would love me the right way, a man I can trust and depend on. Think about this, if your relationship is hanging on a balance, between you and your malicious acts, what would you choose? Who do you love more, is it your vice or your relationship? Just ponder on the thought.

Dear God (Entry No. N)

Dear God,
Yesterday I was ranting about my work and my love life to a friend of mine. I love my job, I like what I get to do but there are sometimes that it isn’t what I always wanted it to be, and there’s the meager income fact. Sure, it’d get upgraded once I become a regular employee but the agony of waiting is well… you know what I feel, even better than I do.
Today, I just got a phone call, well I saw an email first. It was from a top-rated TV station in the country, OFFERING me a job. It isn’t just an invitation for a job interview. It is actually a JOB OFFER. The person on the other line has been calling me for two days now but the phone that I am using rejects unknown numbers so I couldn’t answer it. They wanted me, and so they sent me an e-mail to call them. I did. I thought it was a spam message at first but when I talked to him, he was really selling me the job. It’s a good show. It’s the kind of show that I want to do. I get to work as a researcher for a subject I’m passionate about. I get to be part of telling stories to people. I get to be part of something I have always dreamt of.
Then, reality strikes, I am the eldest of three children, thus partly responsible for helping them out in their education. The job I love is only good for three months, it’s contractual and talent-based. There is no guarantee that I can do it for a long-term. I cannot risk my family’s sake.
I am so torn right now. Let your will be done and whisper into my heart which path I need to take.